Every guy has fantasized about threesomes, group sex, or 'swinging' with another couple, but few make this a reality. Threesomes are the hottest and most complicated sexual adventures you can embark on. Speaking as someone who has explored this 'final frontier,' and had some awesome times and others I regretted, I can say it's not for guys who are insecure or poor communicators. Just make sure you know what kind of threeway you're after and that everyone is on board with the same expectations.
1. APPROACH ONE: There are three participants, but only two are playing at any one time. This allows the third person to watch and give the other two an audience. If you're a voyeur, maybe you'd get off by watching your partner making out with another woman or getting fucked by another man. If you're more of an exhibitionist, maybe you'd enjoy having a stranger watch you and your partner get it on or enjoy knowing your partner is watching you with someone else. If you're in a relationship, you can test the waters by having sex in front of a mirror or try 'web-cam sex' to see if you're both really ready to add a third.
2. APPROACH TWO: Who hasn't fantasized about having sex with two women at the same time?! If you're a guy who enjoys being the center of attention and both girls love to serve, take a Viagra and set aside a weekend! Having two women who are bi-sexual can also be awesome, as long as you don't turn out to be the third wheel. I happen to love watching two women having sex and have no problem working my way in and out of the mix, so this has been great fun for me.
3. APPROACH THREE: Inviting another guy into your bed only works if you are super secure with your sexuality and not prone to jealousy. It's one thing to fantasize about your girlfriend with another guy, but the reality can feel different and be a big mistake. You also have to be upfront with this guy about your comfort zone for sexual contact with him. You may find that a little affectionate bonding with another guy feels great and is all you want. In reality, most guys end up sucking or being sucked. This is not a good time for "don't ask, don't tell." Just be clear about what you want and make sure no one feels ignored or unwanted.
1. APPROACH ONE: There are three participants, but only two are playing at any one time. This allows the third person to watch and give the other two an audience. If you're a voyeur, maybe you'd get off by watching your partner making out with another woman or getting fucked by another man. If you're more of an exhibitionist, maybe you'd enjoy having a stranger watch you and your partner get it on or enjoy knowing your partner is watching you with someone else. If you're in a relationship, you can test the waters by having sex in front of a mirror or try 'web-cam sex' to see if you're both really ready to add a third.
2. APPROACH TWO: Who hasn't fantasized about having sex with two women at the same time?! If you're a guy who enjoys being the center of attention and both girls love to serve, take a Viagra and set aside a weekend! Having two women who are bi-sexual can also be awesome, as long as you don't turn out to be the third wheel. I happen to love watching two women having sex and have no problem working my way in and out of the mix, so this has been great fun for me.
3. APPROACH THREE: Inviting another guy into your bed only works if you are super secure with your sexuality and not prone to jealousy. It's one thing to fantasize about your girlfriend with another guy, but the reality can feel different and be a big mistake. You also have to be upfront with this guy about your comfort zone for sexual contact with him. You may find that a little affectionate bonding with another guy feels great and is all you want. In reality, most guys end up sucking or being sucked. This is not a good time for "don't ask, don't tell." Just be clear about what you want and make sure no one feels ignored or unwanted.
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